
Veterans of Foreign Wars Auxiliary
Department of Oklahoma
President's message
As I begin my year as your Department President, I want to first thank each of you for the trust and confidence you have placed in me. It is both an honor and a privilege to serve as the Department of Oklahoma President for 2026-2027.
Many of you have asked about my theme for the year, "The Power of One."
When I first began moving through the Auxiliary chairs, I was told that one day I would need a theme for my President's year. Like many people, I spent a great deal of time wondering what message I wanted to leave behind. As I reflected on my own life, one truth kept returning to me. I am a survivor. I am a survivor of child abuse. I am a survivor of homelessness. Throughout my life, I have faced challenges that at times seemed impossible to overcome. Yet through every obstacle, I learned a simple lesson: change often begins with one person making one decision to move forward. There were times when a single act of kindness changed the direction of my life.
There were times when one person believed in me when I struggled to believe in myself. There were times when one decision determined whether I would move forward or remain where I was. That is the heart of The Power of One.
Too often, we wait for someone else to have the idea, solve the problem, recruit the member, conduct the project, or take the first step. We tell ourselves that someone else will do it. But what if that someone is you?
ONE thought can become a plan.
ONE voice can inspire others.
ONE light can brighten a room.
ONE person can change a life.
That's why the message on the back of my President's shirt reads:
I am a thought.
I am a voice.
I am a light.
I am the future.
I am ONE.
​Each member of this Department possesses the Power of One. Together, those individual thoughts, voices, and actions become something far greater than any one person could accomplish alone.
Many have also asked about the knight that appears throughout my theme. For those who know me, you know I have long enjoyed medieval history and Renaissance events. In fact, in the 90s, I belonged to a group where I performed in Renaissance festivals as a knight in armor, having sword fights. But the knight is not simply a decorative symbol. To me, a knight represents honor, integrity, courage, and service. Traditionally, knights were expected to live by principles that guided their actions. Seven virtues are commonly associated with knighthood: courage, justice, mercy, generosity, faith, nobility, and hope. ​
​As I considered those virtues, I realized how closely they reflect the work of the VFW Auxiliary.
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It takes courage to step forward and lead. It takes justice to stand up for veterans and their families.
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It takes mercy and compassion to help those facing difficult circumstances.
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It takes generosity to give our time, talents, and resources in service to others.
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It takes faith to believe that our efforts make a difference.
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It takes nobility of character to put service before self.
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And it takes hope to continue building a stronger future for the generations that follow us.
​A true knight does not ask, "What can others do for me?" A true knight asks, "What can I do for others?" A knight stands for what is right, even when it is difficult. A knight follows truth, upholds principles, and remains faithful to the responsibilities entrusted to them. That is what the knight symbolizes for this year.
As we begin the next century of the VFW Auxiliary, I am honored to serve as Oklahoma's first male Department President of that second hundred years. Yet this year is not about me. It is about all of us. It is about every member realizing that they matter. It is about understanding that every idea, every act of service, every recruitment effort, every community project, and every volunteer hour begins with one person deciding to make a difference. My challenge to each of you this year is simple:
Do not wait for someone else.
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​​Be the thought.
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Be the voice.
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Be the light.
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Be the future.
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Be the Power of One
​​As we begin this journey together, I wish each of you many reasons to celebrate in the year ahead. To those celebrating birthdays and anniversaries, may your special days be filled with family, friends, and lasting memories. To those facing challenges, may you find strength and encouragement along the way. Most of all, I wish each of you good health, safe travels, and the opportunity to continue making a difference in the lives of veterans, their families, and your communities. I look forward to serving alongside you as we discover what can happen when every member embraces the Power of One.
In Service,
Frank Matek
Department President 2026-2027
VFW Auxiliary Department of Oklahoma